Ok husbands and wives this is for you. Do you ever find that you are in a place of disagreement about when the last time you were intimate was? I know right. . . it happens all the time! My friends and I are constantly having conversations over this same topic and the division that it can cause. The Difference Between the Low Drive and High Drive Spouse As the low drive spouse it is very realistic for a them to look at their spouse and say, “ What do you mean it’s been 5 days